7. "Remember: Not everyone is just like your ex."
8. "Find out who the person you're dating is by asking questions -- lots of questions."
9. "Make sure that you are completely healed from all of your past relationships and that you're no longer carrying around any sort of emotional baggage. If you're emotionally unavailable, you'll attract the wrong people, fall into the wrong types of relationships, and the vicious cycle will continue to repeat itself. Instead, go into any potential new relationship with a clear conscience and an open, pure heart that's ready to give and receive joy."
10. "The first one (or fifty) is not (usually) 'the one.' Have fun and don't feel badly about that."
11. "Take the time to heal yourself first; otherwise it's not fair to you, or the person you date."
12. "Don't take dating too seriously. It should be fun! If it's not fun, it's time to take a step back and wait to get back out there."
13. "Know this: If you're going to try online dating, you need to develop some thick skin."
14. "You have a better understanding of love now. Commit to loving yourself first and you'll create an example of the love you expect from others."
15. "Find strength in yourself. No man or woman will fill a void. Once you realize that, still go slow. Even when it hurts to go slow. Those were by far the hardest lessons for me to learn."
Source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/28/dating-after-divorce_n_5405587.html